Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Seriously!

I checked the number of posts I made from 2005 and noted that it seriously declined through the years. Is it because I do not have anything worthy to write about? Or maybe cells in that part of my brain that pushes me to "tell a story" have stopped functioning? Wow.

Seriously!

What happened in 2007? We greeted 2007 in Las Vegas. Migo got married in January. Roly, Nica and I attended the 35th wedding anniversary of Tess and Angel in June. Met Ghee (ex-MISS) again after more than 10 years. Carl happened! We moved to California in August. I started working from home in September.

Friday, September 07, 2007

Leaving Springfield

Roly tried to get a job in Springfield for 6 months and failed. When he decided to move back to CA, I knew that leaving Springfield was a decision I had to make in time. I do not remember when we pegged September as our move month. And September came in a wink of an eye.

I love Springfield. I love the house at Melbourne. For the last time, I went inside the house to check anything that we might have failed to pack. I found myself going from room to room, touching its walls, whispering "goodbyes" and "thank yous". Springfield has been good to me. I exeperienced significant triumphs with my family and success in my career here. I got so emotional and nearly choked on my tears. Memories of all my 4 years in Springfield suddenly came rushing back to me. The people I entertained in the house. The well of pride whenever I let someone in my beautiful house. This reaction was so unexpected probably because I was so busy packing and trying not to think about people I will miss. Foremost are my boys - Carl, my dearest apo and Migo and Noy. My friends. Then of course, the streets and my frequent haunts in Springfield - Walmart :), the mall, Panera, Barnes and Noble, the office. Bittersweet.

We started the drive later than planned but it did not stress us out because we were driving the shortest distance, being the first day. We drove for 3 days. The first night, we slept at Amarillo, TX. The next night, we slept at Williams, AZ. I am posting pictures I took while Nica was driving.

We arrived Thursday evening. Tired but thankful that we arrived safely and without any incident. The community where the apartment was located was VERY welcoming. Trees lined the roads. Quiet. Roly chose well. We will build a new life here. I can feel the energy. It has been a week now. The smell of oil fragrance from Bath and Body, a charming lamp on my work desk, the familiar sound of the TV. It feels good to be home.

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

My Family, My Life

NOTHING can come close to the warmth given by a happy family. Here is one of our Kodak moments with Carl and my Kumare.

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

Carl AWAKE!

July 4, 2007. Hey you!

Saturday, June 30, 2007

The Miracle that is Carl

My Grandson - Carl Vincent. Born June 24, 2007, 7.7 pounds.

He takes my breath away ....

I know he cannot see clearly yet. But when he opens his eyes, it seems like he is looking at me and saying "Hey you, I know you!" I am reminded why babies are called "bundles of joy". He does not do anything but be his helpless self, yet he triggers a stream of happiness. I can look at him for hours, smell his baby breath and whisper "I love you baby... Thank GOD for bringing you to our lives!"



Tuesday, May 01, 2007

It is the Thought That Counts

I was cleaning my desk this morning and I saw this thing. It is a gift from a friend. It looked expensive and as I continued to look at it, I thought - it was a thought-less gift. I always think of the "thought process" that goes into the gift-giving and THAT gives the value of the gift for me.

I am a huge fan of gift-giving. I only give because I want to. I never give just so I have something to hand over. I feel I am insulting the person I am giving a gift to if I just get a random gift without ANY thought. If I cannot find the right gift, I decide not give and then promise to myself to make up next time.

So what is the RIGHT gift? For me, it is something that will make the "givEE" think that I was thinking of her/him when I picked the gift for her/him (I am the "givER". I mean, I know you will get that, but I just want to make sure). This is the reason why gift-giving is so personal for me. I feel I reveal how much I care for my friend by the gift I give.

It is not the price of the gift. Not the size. I gave Lalai a wall map of the US. It now hangs in her office. I gave Baging a bag on her birthday that is so HER. She loved it! Know how I know? She wore it for months! I gave Susan a table cloth that matched the colors of her dining room curtains for her birthday last November. The next day she happily remarked that I picked the right colors.

So giving a gift and saying it is the thought that counts??? THAT is so so so so lame! I give a gift and say, I picked this gift because I know you will enjoy it. So if you do not like my gift, it could be because I do not know you that well after all.

Sunday, March 04, 2007

San Antonio

We went to San Antonio last week. It was to attend the funeral of Lingling. A young, sweet and beautiful girl. All of 18 years. Her life was snuffed out by some medical accident no one understands. So sudden and so unexpected. Like one minute you were holding a glass on your hand then you suddenly dropped it and shattered it into bits and pieces. Just like that. Happens to me sometimes and I kick myself thinking how I didn't see it coming. But a glass has monetary value. A life is priceless. Irreplaceable.

They say people die because their mission on earth is done. Lingling must have done hers triple time. I wonder. Am I fulfilling my mission on earth at just the right pace? Is there a way to find out we are going too fast?

Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Migo and Rina

Migo embarks on the next phase of his life ... I wish them happiness, stability and abundance!!!